I used to have a friend, after she started dating, she seemed like a completely different person. I changed from a friend to an emotional trash can for her.

 

For two years, she would break up with her boyfriend almost every week and then came to me, crying and screaming. Sometimes she would make a fuss until three o 'clock in the morning towards me. I was looking forward to helping her solve problems, but what I got in return was that I became anxious and couldn't rest.

 

Two years later, I lost my temper. I said I was in a very bad mental state and please do not tell anymore. Unexpectedly, she said, "You are heartless, and your matter is not as important as my relationship."

So we broke off our friendship. Later I came to know that I wasn't that special friend. She bombards many people with such emotions. This experience caused me a lot of pain, but I learned to protect my boundaries and studied some psychology because of it. I also came to know the definition of a friend. In my interactions with others, I have gradually learned to respect myself.